A
husband is a male participant in a
marriage.==Origin and etymology==
The term
husband refers to
Middle English huseband, from
Old English hsbnda, from
Old Norse hsbndi (hs, house + bndi, bandi, present participle of ba, to dwell, so etymologically, a householder, ).
Related terms
A husband is most commonly married to a
wife in a
wedding ceremony, during which they're referred to as
groom and
bride, respectively. This doesn't apply to non-heterosexual marriages, though it does apply to polygamous marriages.
Although “husband” seems to be a close term to
groom, the latter is the male participant in the wedding ceremony (to his bride), while a husband is the status of a married man after the wedding, during his marriage. Upon marriage, he or his family may have received a
dowry, or have had to pay a
bride price, or both were exchanged. The dowry not only supported the establishment of a household, but also served as a condition that if the husband committed grave offences upon his wife, the dowry had to be returned to the wife or her family; for the time of the marriage, they were made inalienable by the husband. When the husband dies, he might leave his wife (or wives), then widow (or widows), a dower (often a third or a half of his estate) to support her as
dowager.
Husband further refers to the institutionalized form in relation to the spouse and offspring, unlike
father, a term that puts a man into the context of his children. Also compare the similar
husbandry, which in the 14th century referred to the care of the household, but today means the “control or judicious use of resources”, conversation, and in agriculture, the cultivation of plants and animals, and the science about its
profession.
Western culture
Historical status
In premodern times (ancient Roman, mediaeval, and early modern history), a husband was supposed to protect and support not only his wife and children, but servants and animals of his domain, and the
father (as the “patron”) was awarded with much
authority, differing from that of his wife.
In the
Middle Ages and
Early Modern European history, it was unusual to marry out of love, but then became an influential ideal. A husband then had more opportunities in
society than his wife, who wasn't recognized as legally independent.
Contemporary status
In contemporary Christian or secularized Western culture, the rights of wife and husband have been made equal; although in regard to husbands leaving their families, the
civil marriage generally forces them to provide
alimony for his former spouse even after separation and also after a
divorce (see also
Law and divorce around the world); this law, however, usually applies to women as well in the case of a wealthier wife separating herself from a less wealthy man/woman.
The status of marriage allows the husband and his spouse to speak on each other’s behalf when one is incapacitated (for example, in a coma); a husband is also responsible for his wife’s child(ren) in states where he's automatically assumed to be the biological father.
As an external sign to show his status as a married man, a husband commonly wears his
wedding ring on the ring finger; whether on the left or right hand, depends on the country’s tradition.
Islam
In
Islamic marital jurisprudence, husbands are considered protector of the household and his wives.
The various rights and obligations offer the husband opportunities denied to his wife or wives, not only in legal and economical affairs of the family but within the family as well.
In case of rebellious behaviour,
Verse 34 of an-Nisa says the husband should urge his wife to mend her ways, to refuse to share their beds, and to admonish their wives by beating. For other scholars, the passage “the Prophet (s) said: ‘Do not beat your wife’ and ‘Do not strike your wife in the face.’” is quoted. Domestic violence is relatively common among Muslims, with, for instance, over half of all Palestinian women reporting being beaten in the previous year. The World Health Organisation reports that domestic violence is more common countries with Muslim majorities.
On the other hand, progressive Muslims today may also agree on a perfectly equal relationship.
There is no external sign to show his status as a husband, unless he adopted the tradition of wearing a wedding ring.
Hinduism
In
marriages in Hinduism, a Hindu husband traditionally took his wife to his home, hardly ever to return to her family. As a result, he was expected to provide for her and to prove his abilities to do so. The marriage before
modernity was a contract between families, similar to the Western (then: European) marriage.
In our times, equal rights for women and a modern jurisdiction have offered marriage out of love and civil marriage, different from the traditional arranged marriages.
The Britannica mentions that “In Hindu law, the male members of a joint family, together with their wives, widows, and children, are entitled to support out of the joint property.”
In Britannica’s article on the family, the Indian
Nāyar system is regarded as separating the two phases of Hindu marriage and two or more of the roles normally ascribed to a Hindu husband. Among other Hindus (and indeed among the Nāyars today), the tali-tier and the lover are reported to be the same person, whereas in the past the Nāyars held these two roles to be distinct.
Buddhism and Chinese folk religions
China’s family laws were changed by the
Communist revolution; and in 1950, the
People’s Republic of China enacted a comprehensive marriage law including provisions giving the spouses equal rights with regard to ownership and management of marital property.
Other cultures
In Japan, before enactment of the Meiji Civil Code of 1898, all of the woman’s property such as land or money passed to her husband except for personal clothing and a mirror stand.
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